John Graduated! ♥

Hello Friends! ♥

It's hard for me to put into words what I felt that day.  I was overjoyed for John.  It was such an achievement and happy occasion for everyone.  As I sat in the bleachers watching my only son walk with his classmates (402 of them!) while the music played, the last 17 years flashed before my eyes.  It all happened so fast.  I am so proud of him! I was on the edge of crying the entire time...happy tears of course...some a little sad. It's really happening. 

*Also, does Pomp & Circumstance give anyone else chills? That song is so emotional!*

He was SO Happy! It was a beautiful ceremony.  And the best part was John got to play with the band one final time.  He's played at graduation for the last 3 years and this year he got to play for himself.  How cool is that ♥

Afterwards we went home and celebrated with family and friends.  We ate, told stories, laughed, and it was wonderful.  I thought about my mom a lot. I wished so badly she was there with us.  And my Dad, who unfortunately was in the hospital.  He's still there battling a few things but thankfully getting better and hopefully coming home soon.  (More on that later)  

 

For now I'd like to say Congratulations to John.  You did it!!! I know you'll do great things! On to the next chapter! We love you soooo much! ♥

And now that that's over, I'll be back to my regular scheduled program of coffee, candles, and cozy posts.  It's almost summer! 

Happy days my friends! And thank you for all your kind messages and congratulations to John!  

He read them all! Xx 

I'll be back soon with an update on Dad ♥

John's Prom! ♥

Good Monday morning, friends! ♥

It's a coffee on the deck kind of morning.  I'm sipping away watching the birds. I know I have a busy day ahead of me, and this is a nice way to begin.  

I hope you all had a wonderful weekend.  It was another busy one for us as we prepare for John's graduation in just a few days.  Thank you to all who reached out to and left lovely comments about my last post.  I'm realizing that feeling sad is normal.  I had a good cry with Rob on the phone on Saturday and after that I felt much better. I said how sad I am that things are changing and how life is "so different now." One thing about me...I hate change.  He understands that and gave me the pep talk I needed. He told me all things that I already know.  Yes, things are different, but that doesn't mean it's bad.  So much good is yet to come. And adult John is so much fun (and just as wonderful as baby John), which so many of you shared with me too.  Adult kids are awesome in so many ways.  I started decorating for the party, ordered the cake, and started to feel excited again.  I can do this! (she said to herself in a questionable voice...:)  My mom always told me that I'm stronger than I think I am.  Maybe she was right about that. 

Anyway, on to happier things.  Friday night was the prom!  John and his beautiful date, Liliah, had a wonderful time! They were blessed with great weather too! Nice and sunny! 

Do they look lovely?! She's a doll too! ♥

John opted to wear a suit instead of a tux, which some kids do nowadays.  

Who knew?! ♥

 

They met at another friend's house to take pictures.  One of the moms sent me this.  

I think they all look amazing! ♥

The class meets at the school and they have a "red carpet" situation before boarding coach buses to take them to the venue.  

I think it's great because no one has to drive. 

A moment for the tie... Yup, that's Elvis (of course!) ♥

He has a collection of different ones that he got from his uncle and fellow Elvis enthusiast.

They come out on special occasions! 

They had a great time!  I was so happy for him! ♥

It will be a busy week with more activities as we count down to graduation on Saturday. 

My mom's roses and peonies have started blooming and I think that's a sign that she's watching over us.  

Hi Mom! ♥

I hope you all have a happy Monday! I'm going to pour another cup of coffee, get dressed, and get some work done.  

I hope the sun is shining on you today.  Can you believe it's June already?! ♥

XOXO

John's last day of school...♥

Hello Friends! ♥

And all of a sudden, here we are.  John's last day of school.   High school over in a blink and I'm still in disbelief. Has this really happened? Yup!  

Here he is.  

The first day of 1st grade....

and today...the last day of 12th.  

 

I kissed him goodbye this morning and off he went.  All smiles! ♥

It's hard to put into words how I'm feeling today.  I'm so full of joy and pride my heart could literally burst. My little boy has grown into a confident, smart, funny, kind, well rounded, talented, young adult. He loves people and people love to be around him.  And now he's about to graduate high school. The world is waiting for him and he can be whatever he wants to be.  He's excited for his next chapter and I'm excited for him! 

However...♥

Selfishly I feel a little sad.  Sad because it all went by so fast. All those years of making lunches and driving him to school.  Helping with homework and teachers' meetings.  School shows and field trips.  Is it really over?  I guess I'm just too nostalgic for my own good (at least that's what Rob tells me : )

How do countless mom's get through graduation season every year?  

I'm also sad because I wish my mom was here to see this.  She and John were very close and I know she'd be so proud.  She always said she wanted to see him graduate.  I'll know she'll be there looking down on him, but still...I wish I could see her and talk to her about everything that's going on.  The prom and all the party preparations.  It just doesn't seem right without her.  I constantly feel like I'm doing things alone these days.  Things I should be doing with her.  It's really hard without a mom.  

But it's not about me is it? It's about John and I want to make these next few weeks as special as possible! If anyone deserves it, he does!  

As some of you may know, John is a drummer.  He joined the school band in 5th grade and never looked back.  He loves music.  I cannot say enough about the high school music program!  Every year I am more and more impressed by the talent of these kids (and teacher!).  The transition into a large public high school from a very small catholic elementary school was not an easy one. BUT one thing made it so much better.  BAND.  He loved it from day one and some of the kids he met there have become his best friends.  They are even planning of forming their own band this summer.  

Wednesday night was John's last performance in the jazz band.  I wanted to preserve a few clips here on my blog because music has been such a big part of his school life.  It's hard for me to imagine no more school shows.  There have been so many!! But I'm excited to see what comes next.  I'm sure it will be something great! ♥

And now I think I'll make myself a hot cup of vanilla coffee, wrap up in a blanket, put on an I Love Lucy episode, and dig up some chocolate that I know is in the house somewhere.  Chocolate always helps!  

I'll be ok ♥

Have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend, friends!  The summer is practically here! 

Love you! xo 

My weekend ♥

Hello Friends! Happy Monday! ♥

I hope you all had a nice and restful weekend.  We were blessed with beautiful weather (in the 70's) both days which made me very happy.  If only it would stay that way...but alas...I know it won't.  It's ok.  I'll enjoy it while I can.  I had all the windows open to let the glorious fresh air in.  I'm finding I do that more and more these days and I really like it.  I even sleep with my windows cracked now, even if it's on the cooler side.  I think the fresh air helps me sleep better.  Rob is usually freezing and I'm "just right." That's marriage for you.  Just wait until we put the a/c on! : ) 

I spent the better part of Saturday out here on my deck with my new little friend.  He really took a liking to that spot and would not leave.  I thought maybe he was building a nest or something because he seemed to be guarding the spot, but after further investigation I didn't see anything. I'm still not convinced.  I'll report back later : )   

I finished Darling Girls which I really liked!  

I hadn't read a good book in a while and this one got me out of my slump.  This week I'll head to the library to find my next read ♥

 I had run out to Walmart (which...going on a Saturday is like going into battle!) but I needed a few things and wanted to check them off my list.  First stop was to Dunkin Donuts to get the mango refresher.  

It's so good and really hit the spot! ♥

I've needed to repot one of my plants for ages and wanted to get that done this weekend.  I picked up this pretty one which is perfect for my kitchen.  Only $5 too - so the trip into battle was worth it.

*Not to say I don't love Walmart because I do. It's just MY Walmart (the one near my house) is very small and always crowded.  They never have enough people working there so it's a given I'm going to be standing in line for ages.  It's literally my worst nightmare.  All to save a few pennies on paper towels and dish soap, but I do what I have to do! I've been to super Walmarts that are so much nicer than mine.  I hope one opens closer to me one day. I can only dream!*

ANYWAY - I also picked up a few things for John graduation! EEEK! 

Today marks the start of his last full week of school.  As of Friday, that's it! Except for finals, he's done.  It's so hard to believe and SO exciting too!  

Next up is prom! ♥

This is one of the proofs that I got with his senior photos.  I didn't buy this one for his senior picture, but I really like it.  He looks so grown up! 

On Sunday it was such a beautiful day Rob and I had a little day date and took a walk on the beach.  The water and sky were so BLUE.  I needed to hear the sound of the waves and smell that salt air.  It's so peaceful. 

 And notice how there's no people?  Glorious! It won't be that way after Memorial Day so we're getting in our beach time now. 

We always stop and comment on those condos over there.  We dream about retirement and even toured the inside once a few years ago.  I would love to wake up to this view.  And Rob would never have to do yard work ever again! ♥

And so begins a new week.  I have to get better at meal planning.  I'm definitely slipping because It's already lunch time I have no idea what's for dinner.  My plan for the week is to work on staying organized.  With John graduation (and everything that goes along with that) coming up, plus my Dad's recovery (and everything that goes along with that) I've felt like an actual hot mess. I know I need sleep and am in dire need of a pedicure so I can bust out my sandals.  I just need to find the time to do it.  

                                                                            

If you have any tips, please send them my way! Love you! Have a great day! XO 

PS Update on Dad - He's been working with PT like a trooper and it's going well.  He saw the doctor on Friday and he said everything looks great.  The pain will get less and less, so keep going.  It will be worth it.  Fingers crossed it's sooner than later ♥

This week flew by! ♥

                                                        Hello Friends and happy Friday! ♥

It's a rainy one here today. It's supposed to rain all day today & tomorrow, but we're promised a sunny day Sunday for Mother's Day.  The Lillies of the Valley are in full bloom just in time.  I would always pick a bunch for my mom on Mother's Day.  She loved to put them on her night table so she could smell them while she was in bed.  The smell will always remind me of her and that makes me very happy.  

This week went by so fast! My Dad is doing well.  PT is coming every few days to work with him.  He's still in a lot of discomfort but overall recovering nicely.  I'm in charge of daily meds and ice packs, as well as meals.  He's getting there! ♥

I made this yummy dinner the other night that was a hit with everyone.  Chicken piccata over linguini. It's one of my go-to weeknight dinners.  I hadn't made it in a few weeks, so it tasted extra good. I added fresh chopped parsley for a nice touch. My Dad is still traumatized by the food at rehab so anything I cook tastes like a gourmet meal to him! LOL 

It's been a week of catch up for me.  Work, phone calls, and errands.  It suddenly occurred to me that John is graduating in less than a month and we have a party to plan! It's coming up so fast I can hardly believe it.  I'm making lists like crazy and it's really fun.  

I'm so happy for him I could honestly burst ♥

Time really does fly! ♥

In other news I watched an interesting documentary last night that made me SO SAD.  

Blackfish (on Prime) is about the killer whale Tilikum, an Orca, who was held at Sea World and involved in the deaths of three people.  It highlights the consequences of keeping orcas in captivity.  This documentary is so disturbing, and I haven't been able to stop thinking about.  The torture this poor whale went through. And it's still happening. All animals should be able to live freely in their own habitat. I am certain I will never step foot in Sea World ever again.  Please watch this documentary if you haven't already.  

My weekend plans include things around the house on Saturday and then meeting up with my friend Julie for lunch.  Our kids have known each other since kindergarten so it's an emotional time for both of us! : ) 

On Sunday we are heading to my sister in laws for brunch and them I'm hoping for some R&R in the afternoon.  

And of course coffee, coffee, coffee! ♥

Have a great weekend, friends! ♥

Talk to you soon! xoxo 

I'm loving Spring and an update on Dad ♥

Today is a beautiful Spring day.  I have all my windows and sliding doors open.  The sun is shining and there is a warm breeze going right through the house.  It's blissful. I don't think I've every appreciated Spring so much as I do now.  

Here are some things I love about Spring: ♥

*line drying laundry - smells so good! 

*open windows - I love the fresh air so much despite my allergies

*bunnies in the yard - they are the cutest and I want to hug them

*planning for summer - hopes and dreams

*switching to lighter clothes and springy pajamas - YESSSS 

*blooming flowers everywhere - a natural mood booster

*planting an herb garden - make me excited to cook 

*evenings getting a bit longer - I somehow don't feel as tired 

I certainly miss the coziness of winter but I'm learning to live in the moment and appreciate where I am. I think I'm OK if Spring stays around for a little while : ) 

Today I'm grateful for days like this.  I'm also grateful for really GOOD coffee which feeds my soul like you wouldn't believe.  And most of all I'm grateful my Dad is home!!  It would take me too long to tell you about his rehab experience - which wasn't the best to say the least.  On Sunday we went against the rules (rebels that we are!) and left the rehab without proper discharge.  Walked right out the door.  He couldn't take it any longer and that's all I needed to hear.  Sometimes the best medicine is your own bed.  On Monday he saw his own doctor and got his staples removed.  Yesterday he started physical therapy here at the house.  He's up and walking now and doing better and better every day.  Today I took him to the ear doctor to pick up new hearing aids.  After the appointment we went out to lunch. He was craving a big juicy cheeseburger (still mooing) and who and I to deny him that?  We are home now.  He's icing and elevating his leg per doctor's orders.  Things are progressing as they should and that's such a relief. He's got one more follow up appointment with his primary care doctor tomorrow.  After that he's good for a while.  And so am I : )

We were joking over lunch how one LONG week ago he was in the hospital and now here we are out to lunch.  Thank God!  Not bad for an 85 year old. Not bad at all! 

Have a lovely day friends! I am wishing you a beautiful spring day wherever you are.

We are halfway to Friday! ♥

XO

Catching up! ♥

Hello Friends!  ♥

I hope you all had a lovely Easter.  For me it seems like a lifetime ago. The photo above is the only one I took that day and when I look at it, it reminds me of a brief moment of peace I had over a coffee and my sister in laws pavlova (which was delicious by the way).  Let me catch you up...

On Monday April 14th my Dad went into the hospital for a knee replacement surgery.  He had a very bad reaction to the anesthesia and pain medications, which left him very sedated for days and when he finally did wake up he wasn't himself.  It took quite a while for all that to work through his system.  The doctors kept telling me that even though it's scary, it does happen with people and it really is quite common - especially with the elderly - so you just have to "wait."  Easier said than done.  My Dad is 85 and not in the best health as it is so naturally, I was worried (I'm always worried). I must have walked this hallway a thousand times over the course of the week.  

 

Hospitals are not my favorite place, and I am reminded so much of my mom here because we spent so much time in and out of this place.  In this very hall. 

Fast forward to the Monday after Easter.  My Dad was back!  It was early in the morning, and he called me on the phone asking when he was going home!  He sounded like himself and I literally couldn't believe it.  I flew to the hospital.  It took a few more days for the effects of what happened to bring his vitals back to normal, but he got there.  And then...the knee pain set in.  The reason he went to the hospital in the first place.  With all the chaos, I almost forgot.  A few days later he moved to a rehab to start physical therapy for the knee surgery and thankfully he's doing very well!  It's painful but I see progress every day and he'll probably be home next week.  

Thank you God  ♥

I feel like I know this hospital way too well and I hope I don't have to go back there for a long time.  Although I will say the cafeteria has very good coffee.  But that's the only thing good about it.  

Meanwhile, outside the hospital life continued to happen.  

John got his license!  Very exciting!  ♥

And spring is officially in full bloom!  ♥

We are all suffering with allergies (especially the new driver!) but at least it's pretty.  

It's 70 degrees and sunny.  

Our trees are blooming and when the wind blows it looks like confetti in the air! 

I will enjoy this until the summer heat arrives...and then I will hibernate until Fall.

Yes, I'm already thinking about that but please don't hold it against me : ) 

The lilies of the valley are getting ready. 

They are my favorite.  I knew they were thriving under all that winter snow and ice.  It's time for them to finally have their moment in the sun ♥

And the forsythias are such a pretty spring color.  I want to cut some of these and bring them inside.  Today was the first day in over 10 days when I've felt like myself again.  I'm starting to catch up on things at home and opening my eyes to appreciate what's happening around me.  You know that feeling of just being happy to breathe?  That's me right now ♥

We're going to have a little rain tomorrow but that's ok.  I can't wait to wake up in the morning and have my coffee.  I'm getting a long overdue haircut and then I'll get my Dad a chocolate donut and head up to visit him in the rehab.  And I'm grateful I'm able to do it. 

 ♥

I hope all is well in your corner of the world and you are enjoying beautiful spring days.  Have a great weekend friends! I'll be visiting your blogs and catching up this weekend.  I've missed you! xx